The Importance Of Mentors

All the successful people I have ever known havealready have and those that youneed to complete
had a mentor atsome point in their life, someonethe project.
who taught them and encouragedthem to take risksA good mentor can accommodate different learning
with new experiences. I owe a great deal tothestyles andabilities. The self-directed learners take off
mentors in my life - Richard Ford, Krissy Jackson, Julieat their own pace,once they've been given a start.
Huntand more!The ones that need a little or alot of coaching get
I've also worked closely with kids as a mentor. Here'swhat they need because the mentor has time togive
a bit ofhistory: I spent my high school and universityit. When I work with large groups, I just move from
years working as amentor in an Emerginggroup togroup as the students work, judging the
Technologies Program. When I work withkids, I useemotional tone of theunit and giving encouragement
just one basic principle: I never do anything forthemor guidance as required.
that they could do for themselves. I act as aWhere are you going to get it?
resource andwork to wake kids up to their passions.Once you know what you have and know what you
I cannot give thempassion, and I do not give themneed, the next taskis to figure out how to access
any answers. They must findpassion and answersthe resources that you need. Ifyou're mentoring a
themselves.group, often, the information is there in thegroup. By
When working with kids, we focus on answeringasking and learning from each other, kids develop
these questions:trustand confidence. With this confidence, they find it
What do you want?easier toadmit that they don't know all the answers,
What do you have?and easier toapproach other sources outside the
What do you need?group for help. This givesthem great self-assurance
Where are you going to get it?and leads them to try an even biggerproject next
What will you do with it?time. Every time they take on a new challenge,
What do you want?theylearn something about the world and about
What someone wants is a good indicator of whothemselves.
they are as anindividual. We work to get what weWhat will you do with it?
want. Where we work, what westudy in order to doNow that you have all the skills and have worked to
that work, who we work with, and what wethinklearn newones, what will you do with your new
about, all create and change our personality.found talents? I mentoredaround emerging
This is where creating passion comes in. It is thetechnologies, helping kids become passionateabout
passion to getwhat you want, and to learn andthe internet and giving them the resources to learn
create that motivates people. Byfinding out what kidshow todesign web pages. The kids I worked with,
want to do, and then supporting them inevery waywent on to do webdesign for real clients. They
possible, I facilitate their own learning process. Iaskcontinued their learning on thejob. They developed
questions to help them find out what they want tolanguage and presentation skills, theylearned how to
do. Iencourage them to explore for themselves waysinteract with clients and meet deadlines, but
to get what theywant. I help them figure out whatmostimportant they learned how to share expertise
they want to learn. As I seeit, a mentor shouldand how to findwhat they needed. They learned to
transfer responsibility for what has to belearned tobe mentors and find mentors.
the student, because when the student take onEvery time the students met a client or made a
theresponsibility, they will go beyond what anyonepresentation of acompleted project, they were
expects.performing. Performance changes you.
What do you have?It is one of the milestones of life that I think
Determining your strengths, talents and skills,everyone shouldexperience. Practice is fine, but
whether you'reworking alone or in a group, is theactually getting up anddemonstrating what you have
launch pad for all discovery.learned, be it a piano concerto oryour own first Web
Determine what you have within the group itself andsite, is a life-changing experience. The
work togetherto share those skills. Knowing whatmoreperformance opportunities we create for kids,
you have is key to knowingwhat you need.the more we helpthem find what they want, the
What do you need?more they will change, grow andtake responsibility
An important step in any project is determining thefor their own lives.
gap betweenthe resources and information you